Watching our mouths

Sticks and stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me.” I don’t know who to credit for that “sage” observation, but that individual didn’t know what he or she was thinking! Words definitely can hurt and leave scars that are engraved on hearts and minds. I’m at that laughable stage of forgetfulness. I’m grateful to still have breath, but it is a bit frustrating to walk toward a room with intent to retrieve a particular item and forget what that item is by the time I get to that spot. However, as poor as my memory may serve me now, I can still recall those caustic words I heard years and years ago — words aimed at me in sarcasm, jest or anger. I’m blessed that there aren’t many to recall, but the fact is undeniable. Even though I’ve forgiven the perpetrators, I somehow still remember the pain those unkind, thoughtless words inflicted. So, I know from experience the power of words and continue to be fascinated with the power of the spoken and written word.

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